हमारे डिस्कवर पेज पर मनोरम सामग्री और विविध दृष्टिकोणों का अन्वेषण करें। नए विचारों को उजागर करें और सार्थक बातचीत में संलग्न हों
Benefits of Soul winning
1. A soul winner is entitled to His presence. God's greatest priority on the earth is the salvation of soul Mark 16:15-16/20 Lule 10:1 Matthew 28:19-20. No one goes into battles with divine presence and returns defeated.
2. Divine protection Lile 10:18
3. Supernatural breakthroughs Daniel 12:3. Jesus came for one thing; to save us from our sin Revelation 22:16
4. Soul winning guarantees express answers to prayers John 15:16
5. Termination of shame and reproach Proverbs 11:30/3:35
6. Divine health John 15:2 Proverbs 13:17 2 Corinthians 5:17-18 -- this does not means you will not be challenged. But the champion in you will come forth even with the challenges. Its not unspiritual to be challenged, but its anti covenant to be defeated.
7. Supernatural favour Luke 22:35 -- no soul winner is meant to be bath with misfortune.
8. Fresh oil -- we are empowered to serve not for show. Its not for sitting down, its to go about our father's business Acts 1:8/2:1-4/4:29-31 -- fresh oil is the entitlement of every soul winner. The oil on every soul winner is always fresh. And its the fresh oil that destroys yokes Psalms 92:10. Fresh oil answers to fruit bearing. Fresh oil renders our enemies helplessly helpless Psalms 23:5
9. It secures a good old age Philemon 1:9 Acts 26:22
10. Preservation of our future generation Psalms 112:1-3 John 14:12
“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” – Romans 12:18 (NIV)
Being a peacemaker isn’t easy. It’s not the passive existence of “keeping the peace,” or keeping your mouth shut to avoid confrontation. Instead, it’s an intentional, active state of existence that requires you to make careful–and sometimes difficult–decisions regarding the state of your relationship. Seeking and creating peace requires courage and fortitude.
Resolving conflict is marriage is difficult; because it can be so tricky to navigate, many couples find that unresolved issues and hurts begin to accumulate over time. In many cases, this leads to resentment and more frequent conflict. One way to combat this issue is to intentionally work to create peace in your marriage by uncovering and facing your issues head-on.
Today, we’re sharing 7 things you and your spouse can to do “seek peace and pursue it” in your marriage.
1. Be the first to apologize.
Whether or not your spouse is in the wrong alongside you doesn’t matter–what matters is whether you’re willing to step up and say you’re sorry first. Don’t wait around for your spouse to come to you; if you have something you need to apologize for, go ahead and do it. This will open the door for your spouse to respond in kind if he or she has been holding out. (Just be sure to only apologize if you actually have something to apologize for!)
2. Own your mistakes.
Avoiding responsibility for bad decisions you make or hurtful things you say to your spouse will only make wounds fester and grow worse over time. Even though you might not want to admit to any wrongdoing, it’s best to bite the bullet and admit you made a mistake. Your spouse will be more likely to extend forgiveness sooner if you’re willing to own your part when you apologize.
3. Don’t sweep things under the rug.
If you’ve got unresolved conflict under the surface of your marriage, sooner or later, it’s going to get bigger and bigger until you can’t handle it anymore. Don’t sweep issues under the rug, hide from them, or send them down the road; face them head-on, and acknowledge their presence so they’ll be less likely to keep growing.
4. Encourage your spouse to face issues together.
You and your spouse can create peace together by facing down your conflicts, challenges, and issues as a team. The two of you are stronger together than you are apart, and if only one of you is fighting your battles, that could lead to resentment and conflict between the two of you. Put your heads together to create solutions and ideas that will lead you away from strife and toward a happy, peaceful existence together.
5. Speak the truth in love.
Sometimes, you have to say things your spouse doesn’t want to hear. And you know it’s going to hurt you, too, when your spouse responds in pain or anger. Approach him or her in a loving way and lay all your cards on the table; if he or she has an issue that is hurting your marriage or family–or is even just harmful to them in some way–you have to put it out there. It could be addiction, hurtful behavior, or any number of things. Your spouse’s well being may depend on you speaking up. And if he or she goes down a destructive path, your marriage goes down, too.
6. Bite your tongue.
On the flipside, sometimes you have to check yourself to keep the peace. Do you tend to speak before you think, saying hurtful things in the process? Is it sometimes hard to rein in your temper when the going gets rough? If you want to seek peace first, it will pay dividends to learn when to hold your tongue and think about what you’re about to say before it comes out of your mouth.
7. Ask for help.
If your marriage is in trouble and you can’t seem to achieve peace on your own, it’s healthy and wise to ask for help. A trusted friend, pastor, mentor, or counselor can help you determine your next steps toward establishing peace in your marriage. Do your best to get your spouse on board, and work together with that trusted person in order to get on solid ground.
How do you and your spouse “seek peace and pursue it”? Share your strategies in the comments!
Copyright : Symbis Assessment
The Sacred Balance: Understanding the Needs of a Man and Woman in a Marriage Relationship
Marriage is a divine covenant, not just a legal contract. It is God's idea — a holy union designed to reflect the beauty of unity, selflessness, and love. For a marriage to thrive, both the man and woman must understand and intentionally meet each other's core needs. These needs are different but not contradictory; they are complementary. When each partner focuses on fulfilling the other’s design, they unlock joy, peace, and intimacy in their relationship.
His Needs: The Design of the Husband
Sexual Fulfilment
For most men, sex is not just a physical act—it is deeply tied to identity, validation, and emotional connection. In marriage, sexual fulfilment is more than desire; it is a God-given need. When this is neglected, it can open the door to temptation, frustration, and emotional distance.
Recreational Companionship
Men bond through shared activity. Whether it's watching a football match, traveling, or working on a project, a wife who shares in or supports his recreational interests becomes his best friend. She’s not just a lover; she’s a partner in life’s adventures.
An Attractive Wife
Men are primarily stimulated by what they see, while women are moved by what they hear. A wife’s appearance still matters after the vows are said. To cleave means to chase, and a woman who continues to care for her beauty gives her husband something to pursue every day. Let him chase you around the house — not out of duty, but out of delight.
Domestic Support
The home should be a sanctuary. A place where a man finds peace, not stress. When the home is clean, organized, and welcoming, it refreshes his soul. Domestic support doesn't mean servitude—it means co-creating a loving and livable environment.
Admiration and Respect
Respect is oxygen to a man. It’s not always about what he has achieved, but what he’s striving to become. Like a car that needs fuel to run, a man needs consistent admiration to function well. You don’t admire him because he’s perfect—you admire him so that he can become what he was created to be.
Her Needs: The Heart of a Wife
Love and Affection
For a woman, love is more than words—it’s action. Holding hands, thoughtful gifts, gentle touches, and unprompted “I love you” reminders—these small things are huge in her emotional world. Without affection, she feels invisible.
Conversation and Communication
Women feel connected through meaningful conversation. It’s not always about fixing a problem; it's about listening, engaging, and caring. When a man talks, he’s opening a door to her heart.
Honesty and Openness
Nothing destroys a woman's trust faster than secrecy. Openness breeds security. Transparency is the foundation of intimacy, and honesty is its constant nourishment.
Financial Support
While both partners may work, the heart of a woman is wired to receive provision. She often desires what she sees—and not just for vanity, but for the home, the children, and her sense of well-being. A man must be generous and responsible, understanding that providing is not just about money—it’s about reassurance.
Family Commitment
She needs to know that her husband is all in. His commitment to family isn’t shown in grand speeches, but in presence, effort, and shared responsibility. She blossoms when she sees that he’s fully invested—not just in her, but in the children and the home.
Divine Design and the Power of Agape Love
The woman’s first need is affection; the man’s last need is admiration. These seem opposite, and they are—but that’s the beauty. The balance between both is found in Agape love—a God-kind of love. It is not based on feelings, performance, or circumstances. It is love without condition.
You cannot operate in Agape love without the presence of the Holy Spirit. Only He can teach a man to love without expecting and a woman to respect even when it’s hard. It is this kind of love that sustains marriages through storms.
Conclusion: Marital Mastery Requires Selflessness
Marriage thrives when each partner asks not “What can I get?” but “What can I give?” A husband who loves his wife like Christ loves the church, and a wife who respects her husband as unto the Lord, will build a marriage that mirrors heaven.
Men naturally gravitate toward groups or environments where they are praised. Let the home be that place. And women blossom where they feel loved. Let the man be her constant source.
Let this not be a checklist—but a covenant. Not a competition—but a commitment. And with the Holy Spirit as the center, any marriage can thrive with purpose, passion, and peace.
How to from Rag to Riches
How to discover oneself and move forward, is to focus on self-reflection, identifying values and passions, trying new things, and embracing solitude. Because,this journey involves understanding your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, exploring your interests, and challenging yourself outside your comfort zone. Ultimately, self-discovery is about aligning your life with your true self and values.
💸 Financial = Soul + Emotion: Why True Wealth Starts Within
When most people hear the word “financial,” they immediately think of money, investments, savings, or credit scores. But what if we told you that your finances are far deeper than digits on a screen?
Here’s a powerful idea to reflect on:
Financial = Soul + Emotion
This isn't just a poetic equation—it’s a new lens for understanding the true nature of wealth. Let’s break it down.
🧠 The Traditional View of Money
Money is often treated as a cold, logical topic. Budget this. Invest here. Cut that. It’s all strategy. But millions still feel stuck, frustrated, or unfulfilled—even when the math checks out.
Why? Because money is not just math. It’s meaning.
🕊️ Soul: The Purpose Behind Your Pursuit
Your soul is where your deepest values, beliefs, and sense of purpose live. It's the why behind your goals.
Do you want to make money to help your family?
Build a business that changes lives?
Live freely and express your creativity?
When your financial path aligns with your soul, money becomes a tool for impact, not just survival. You're not just chasing income; you're building legacy, creating freedom, and walking in purpose.
💖 Emotion: The Energy That Shapes Every Choice
Your emotions are the driving force behind most of your money decisions—even when you're unaware of it.
Fear may keep you stuck in scarcity.
Guilt can make you overgive or undersell.
Confidence can attract bold opportunities.
Gratitude can unlock abundance.
You can have all the financial knowledge in the world, but if your emotions are not in check, you may still struggle. Emotional clarity is the fuel for wise financial moves.
🔄 Money Mirrors Your Inner World
What’s going on in your soul and emotions will eventually show up in your finances.
This is why healing, mindset shifts, and self-awareness are just as crucial as saving or investing. To build real wealth, you must do inner work:
Heal your money wounds.
Clarify your values.
Learn emotional intelligence.
Align your income with your identity.
🧘♂️ Real Wealth is Holistic
Wealth isn’t just having more—it’s being more.
When soul and emotion are aligned, your finances become a reflection of peace, purpose, and power.
You stop hustling blindly and start building intentionally.
✨ Final Thoughts
The equation “Financial = Soul + Emotion” is a powerful reminder that money starts within. If you want to grow financially, start by:
Reconnecting with your soul purpose
Reframing your emotional relationship with money
Because the most valuable currency you have isn’t just cash—it’s clarity.
#souljarlife | #wealthwithin | #purposedrivenfinance
OPEN HEAVEN DAILY DEVOTIONAL
DATE: SATURDAY JUNE 28, 2025
THEME: COMMANDING YOUR MIRACLE
MEMORISE: His mother said unto the servants, Whatsoever He saith unto you, do it.
John 2:5
READ: John 2:1-12
1 And the third day there was a marriage in Cana of Galilee; and the mother of Jesus was there:
2 And both Jesus was called, and his disciples, to the marriage.
3 And when they wanted wine, the mother of Jesus saith unto him, They have no wine.
4 Jesus saith unto her, Woman, what have I to do with thee? mine hour is not yet come.
5 His mother saith unto the servants, Whatsoever he saith unto you, do it.
6 And there were set there six waterpots of stone, after the manner of the purifying of the Jews, containing two or three firkins apiece.
7 Jesus saith unto them, Fill the waterpots with water. And they filled them up to the brim.
8 And he saith unto them, Draw out now, and bear unto the governor of the feast. And they bare it.
9 When the ruler of the feast had tasted the water that was made wine, and knew not whence it was: (but the servants which drew the water knew the governor of the feast called the bridegroom,
10 And saith unto him, Every man at the beginning doth set forth good wine; and when men have well drunk, then that which is worse: but thou hast kept the good wine until now.
11 This beginning of miracles did Jesus in Cana of Galilee, and manifested forth his glory; and his disciples believed on him.
12 After this he went down to Capernaum, he, and his mother, and his brethren, and his disciples: and they continued there not many days.
MESSAGE
Today's Bible reading tells us the story of the wedding in Cana of Galilee. When wine finished at the wedding, Mary informed Jesus about it, expecting Him to provide a solution. However, Jesus replied that His time had not yet come. Mary must have smiled and said to herself, "Son, your time will come tonight." She told the men confidently, "Do whatever He asks you to do," and before the end of the day, 'not yet' became 'now'.
You can also command a miracle from God. You can pray in such a way that you will know that God has heard and your miracle is on the way. Jabez was a man who prayed such a prayer. For many years, he was labelled as a cause of pain and sorrow until he said, "Enough is enough." He called on God to turn his situation around, and He granted his request.
And Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, Oh that thou wouldest bless me indeed, and enlarge my coast, and that thine hand might be with me, and that thou wouldest keep me from evil, that it may not grieve me! And God granted him that which he requested.
1 Chronicles 4:10
We don't know how long Jabez prayed for, but we know the result of his prayer: God turned his story around. In the name above every other name, whatever you have long waited for will come speedily.
To command your miracle, you must know how to engage in fervent prayers and be persistent with them. James said that the effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much (James 5:16). During a Holy Ghost Service at Redemption City, I waved my hands as I stood on the altar, and miracles started happening. It is possible for some pastors who saw that happen to wonder, "Why can't I also wave and have miracles happen? I serve the same God this man serves; I also pray and fast regularly." However, they may not know that before that day, I had been praying that miracles should happen just at the wave of my hands for about fifteen years. Some of the things people see happening now in RCCG are the result of my persistence with God in the place of prayers.
Beloved, don't be tired of waiting on God. Command your miracles by remaining persistent in the place of prayer. As you pray, take heed to the Holy Spirit instructions. Obey them, and you will receive your miracle before long.
PRAYER POINT
Father, please help me to remain persistent in the place of prayer, in Jesus.
BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: Psalms 134-140
AUTHOR: PASTOR E. A ADEBOYE
HYMN 15: PASS ME NOT O GENTLE SAVIOUR
1 Pass me not, O gentle Savior,
Hear my humble cry,
While on others Thou art calling,
Do not pass me by.
Refrain:
Savior, Savior,
Hear my humble cry;
While on others Thou art calling,
Do not pass me by.
2 Let me at a throne of mercy
Find a sweet relief;
Kneeling there in deep contrition,
Help my unbelief.
3 Trusting only in Thy merit,
Would I seek Thy face;
Heal my wounded, broken spirit,
Save me by Thy grace.
4 Thou the Spring of all my comfort,
More than life to me,
Whom have I on earth beside Thee?
Whom in heav'n but Thee?